Monday, October 14, 2013

HOW TO DEAL WITH BETRAYAL

One thing is for sure, you are not going to come across the perfect friends.  Infact, there will be a number of altercations, disagreements even betrayal that you are bound to find yourself in.  Trust is a big and it takes two people to create that form of solid relationship.  These things dont only make you stronger but builds the relationship further if both allow it.

I have come across a number of failed friendships that took a hard knock and where unable to survive after that, other than that they become enemies. Those kind of relationships have never been unhealthy but they do happen.  When you think you know someone only to find that there is a side to them that has been hidden over the years and is ready to be unleashed. A side to them that is shocking to you and especially to the people who have been around and watched the friendship grow.

When it comes to dealing with issues of such nature the best thing  to do is pray about it and ask for guidance.  Noone ever plans to be in a relationship with someone only to be their enemy towards the end.  Issues such as jealousy play role and drift people apart.  That is why it is essential to include prayer with every relationship as it is said to love your neighbour just as you love yourself.  It is the best recipe.

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