With friends there are certain personalities, characters and even episodes that are just not going to click with you. It is for this reason tolerance remains the order of the day. Some remain in the clique because they favour certain friends more than the other or simple issues of detaching or finding new friends altogether.
This is an absolute norm in any relationship. The bottom line will always be if they are worth your time or not. If they are, then definitely find means to accomodate and accept each other as is. If not then try to find means of bringing the topic up, your issues and finding out what the clique has to say about it. There is nothing worse than spending your days with "so-called" friends and not being able to be yourself, hindered by other personalities, personally i feel that that is a life less spent. What is the point of spending your time with individuals that hold you back even if it is just a little. Life is too short for that and freedom of expression is essential for communication.
Learning to speak your mind, in an accomodating manner, and having input when necessary will change a number of things as far as your existence towards others is concerned. Its best to try speak you mind and also accomodate if you still identity with your mates, to just naturally flow in tune with them.
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